Turned Down a Date (and a Guy)

Accomplished the week of Jan. 24

Maybe you remember my first Red exploit, I gave a guy my number? Well, that went ok at first, I dated the guy a few times, but I suspected something was up when he only asked me out on weeknights or Saturday afternoons. Then he waited 6 days to contact me after our latest date. When I did hear from him, he asked me to go out this Wednesday night. But here it is Tuesday and I still haven't heard from him about what we're going to be doing.

Did I mention he has not called me once and only contacts me via Facebook message?

It was pretty clear to me this guy was not all that into me, and I was faced with a pretty hard decision: keep dating him and hope things get better, or tell him I'm tired of this and show him the door.

It took a little encouragement from my friend Bridget, but I opted for the latter. I want a guy who can't wait to see me again, who asks me out for another date before we've left the date we're on, who picks up the phone, who actually likes me. I haven't had much luck with that in the past, but it's worth hoping for right? A Red person would believe she deserves that. I don't totally believe it now, but I'm working on it.